Polite requests with "qing"

To be more polite in English, we add the word "please" onto our requests. In Chinese, the word (qǐng) serves the same purpose.

Simple Requests

In its most simple form, a polite request can consist of only two words.

Structure

+ Verb

Examples

Longer Requests

Obviously, those requests may be significantly longer.

Structure

(+ ) + Verb Phrase

Examples

The phrase 请问 (qǐngwèn) is a set expression meaning not "please ask," but rather, "may I ask." It frequently comes before asking for directions or other polite requests for information.

Being Polite without (qǐng)

You may have noticed that the Chinese themselves do not use (qǐng) nearly as much as we use the word "please" in English. It's not because Chinese people are rude; it's because the word (qǐng) feels rather formal in Chinese, and most people don't feel the need to use it with family members, friends, or even co-workers.

Here are some other ways to start make a request to still be polite, but less in a less formal way:

More Advanced Uses of (qǐng)

Aside from this "please" usage, the word (qǐng) has some additional uses not covered here. It can mean "to invite," or "to treat (someone to a meal)," and can even be used as a causative verb. None of those uses are covered here.

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