跟 (gēn) and 对 (duì) sometimes seem like they mean the same
thing, and at other times they seem to be different.After reading
this article, you will know the difference!
When using the verb 说, 跟 and 对 can both be used in a similar
sentence pattern. 跟 and 对 are both prepositions, and they both
express one person speaking to another.
Structure
Person A + 跟 / 对 + Person B 说
Examples
- 我 跟 她 说 了，但是 她 不 信。I told her, but
she didn't believe me.
- 我 对 她 说 了，但是 她 不 信。I told her, but
she didn't believe me.
- 他 对 我 说 他 爱 我。He told me he loved
me.
- 他 跟 我 说 他 爱 我。He told me he loved
me.
- 刚才 你 对 他 说 什么 了？What did you just
tell him?
- 刚才 你 跟 他 说 什么 了？What did you just
tell him?
When they have a similar grammar structure but different
meanings
跟 and 对 can be verbs, and they often are used with a 着, however
their meanings are different.
Structure
Examples for 跟
跟 is a verb, and it's simplest meaning is "follow." Often it is
used as a verb phrase, such as 跟着, 跟上, 跟不上, 跟得上, 跟somebody +
Verb.
- 这 只 小 猫 总是 跟着 我。This little cat
always follows me.
- 你 走 得 太 快 ，我 跟不上。You walk too
fast, I can't keep up.
- 你 想 跟 我 去 吗？Do you want to go with
me?
Examples for 对
对 is also a verb, put it has the meaning of "towards" or "point
to." Often it is used as: 对着, 对上, 对不上.
- 枪口 不 要 对着 人。Don't point that at
people.
- 我 喜欢 对着 镜子 笑。I like to laugh at
myself in the mirror.
- 这 两 本 账 对不上。These two accounts
don't match up.
When to use 跟 and not 对
跟 is a proposition, and it can be used in comparison. It will
often have a supplementary explanation, similar to how 和 can be
used (as in 我和你一样高). 对 cannot be used this way.
Structure 1
This structure is used to explain that two things are (or
aren't) similar.
Examples
- 我 跟 你们 不一样，我 还 有 孩子 呢。I
am not like you guys. I still have kids.
- 上海 跟 纽约 一样，都 是 国际 大 都市。Shanghai and New York are alike; they are both
international cities.
Structure 2
This structure shows that two nouns are the same in some some
aspect, which is the word that follows "一样."
Examples
- 我 现在 跟 我 爸 一样 高。Now I'm as tall as my dad.
- 你 跟 你 妈 一样 喜欢 买
衣服。You like to buy clothes just like
your mother.
Structure 3
"跟" functions as a conjunction in this structure, joining two
things together. Generally, these are nouns or pronouns (as with
"和"). "对" cannot function like this.
Subj. 1 跟 Subj. 2 + Verb-Obj.
Examples
- 你 要 跟 我 一起 去 吗？Are you going to go
with me?
- 鲜花 跟巧克力 是 最 好 的 礼物。Flowers and
chocolate are the best gifts.
Examples when to use 对
and not 跟
Structure
When 对 as a proposition, it points to a certain target,since it
can mean "point to" or "toward to." 跟 can only be used this way
with 说.
Examples
- 那 个 美女 正 对 我 笑 呢。That pretty girl
is laughing at me.
- 不 要 对 老板 发脾气， 不然 后果 很 严重。Don't
lose your temper with the boss, otherwise there will be serious
consequences.
Example Dialog
- A: 那 个 帅哥 在 对 我 招手！That handsome
guy is motioning for me to go to him!
- B: 那 你 要 跟 他 去 吗？Well, are you
going to go with him?
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