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Standard Chinese, A Modular Approach, Module on Customs Surrounding Marriage Birth and Death, Unit 1.

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This tape presents language used in talking about marriage practices and wedding customs in the PRC today.

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Part 1 deals with marriage practices.

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Government

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政府

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to advocate

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提倡

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to be young

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年轻

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to get married

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结婚

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Does the government advocate young people marry late?

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中国政府是不是提倡年轻人晚结婚?

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late involvement and late marriage

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晚恋晚婚

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the government advocates late involvement and late marriage

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政府提倡晚恋晚婚

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youth young person

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青年

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to be hardworking

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努力

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that young person is very hardworking

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那个青年工作很努力

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rural area, countryside

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农村

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to practice, to carry out a policy or plan

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实行

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Do the young people in the countryside also practice late marriage?

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农村年轻人也实行晚婚吗?

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to become

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common practice

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风气

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late marriage has already become a common practice for young people.

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晚婚已经成了一种风气

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with and

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to be romantically involved

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恋爱

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all along, all the time up until a certain point

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意直

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小李 went out with her for a long time, but he never wanted to get married

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小李和他恋爱很久了,可是一直不要结婚

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小城市

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indeed really

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boy this little town pretty

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这个小城市可漂亮了

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now here's a review of the new words in part one

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government

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to advocate

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提倡

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to be young

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年轻

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to get married

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结婚

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late involvement and late marriage

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晚恋晚婚

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youth young person

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青年

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to be hardworking

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努力

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rural area countryside

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to practice to carry out a plan or policy

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common practice

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to be romantically involved

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恋爱

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all along

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now here's a review of the sentences in part one

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does the chinese government advocate that young people marry late?

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中国政府是不是提倡年轻人晚结婚?

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the government advocates late involvement and late marriage

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政府提倡晚恋晚婚

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that young person is very hardworking

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那个青年工作很努力

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do the young people in the countryside also practice late marriage?

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年轻人也实行晚婚吗?

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late marriage has already become a common practice for young people

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晚婚已经成了一种风起

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小离 went out with her for a long time

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but he never wanted to get married

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小离和她恋爱很久了

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可是一直不要结婚

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boy is this little town pretty?

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这个小城市可漂亮了

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now here's a dialogue reviewing part one

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an american visiting china talks with her guide about the policies and practices concerning marriage

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我记得上次你说你28岁了

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还没有结婚

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我一直想问问你

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中国年轻人好像30岁左右才结婚是不是?

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对了

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我们青年有很多事要做

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要努力工作努力学习

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不要早结婚

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政府也提倡晚恋晚婚

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在城市里年轻人都在25岁以后才结婚

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农村里的年轻人也实行晚婚吗?

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他们也实行晚婚

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在农村晚恋爱晚结婚

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已经成了一种新风起

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我有一个在北京郊区工作的朋友

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下礼拜结婚

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你要不要和我一起去看看

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我给你安排一下

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好急了

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那可真有意思

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刚到这儿就有这么一个好机会

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第二个是婚纱和联系

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婚纱

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仪式

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现在中国人结婚有什么仪式?

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什么仪式?

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relatives

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to give something as a gift

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gift present

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礼物

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gifts did your relatives give you when you got married?

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你结婚的时候

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你的亲戚送给你什么礼物?

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to serve as to act as

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they gave me a few small presents as momentals

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他们送给我一些小礼物

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做纪念

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some men now go and live with the wife's family after they get married

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有的男青年结婚以后住到女家去

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this is very different from the customs of the past

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这跟以前的风俗有很大的区别

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I'll say

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可不是吗?

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to change

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I'll say it's really changed a lot

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可不是吗?真是改变了不少

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furthermore late marriage is also practiced in rural areas

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now here's a review of the new words presented in part 2

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test yourself

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ceremony

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relatives

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to give something as a gift

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to serve as, to act as

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momento memorial

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纪念

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difference, distinction

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可不是吗?to change

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a lot, many

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now here's a review of the sentences in part 2

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what kind of ceremony do the Chinese have when they get married now?

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现在中国人结婚有什么仪式?

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what gifts did your relatives give you when you got married?

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你结婚的时候,你的亲戚送给你什么礼物?

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they gave me a few small presents as mementos

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他们送给我一些小礼物做纪念

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some men now go and live with the wife's family after they get married.

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有的男青年结婚以后,住到女家去

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this is very different from the customs of the past.

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这跟以前的风俗有很大的区别

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I'll say it's really changed a lot.

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可不是吗?这是改变了不少

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furthermore, late marriage is also practiced in rural areas

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now here's a conversation reviewing part 2

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an American woman and her guide in Peking

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talk about the wedding ceremony

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she came surrounding a celebration

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中国人结婚的时候有什么样的仪式?

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没有什么仪式

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就是请亲戚朋友来喝点茶,吃点糖,点心什么的

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亲戚朋友送不送礼物?

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有的人送一点小礼物做纪念

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我听说以前,农村里女孩子结婚的时候

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男家要送许多礼物

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这种风俗是不是也改变了?

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是啊,这种事情在不少地区都没有了

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而且现在也有的男青年结婚以后住到女家去

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这跟以前的风俗也有很大的区别

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可不是吗?真是改变了不少

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part 3 talks more about attitudes and policies surrounding marriage in the PRC today

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both sides, both parties

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双方

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each other, mutually

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彼此

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to understand, understanding

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了解

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before you two were married, did you two both know each other very well?

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你们结婚以前,双方彼此都很了解吗?

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to divorce

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离婚

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there aren't very many people getting divorced in China now

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现在中国离婚都很了解

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现在中国离婚都很了解

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现在中国离婚的不太多

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that married couple doesn't work in the same region

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那对夫妇不在一个地区工作

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那对夫妇不在一个地区工作

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leave for visiting family

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how many days of leave does he get every year to visit family?

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他每年有多少天的探亲家?

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it's always better if married couples can be together

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do you think he will help me solve this problem?

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你想他会不会帮我解决这个问题?

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now here's a review of the new words in part 3

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both sides, both parties

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each other mutually

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to understand understanding

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marry couple

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now here's a review of the sentences in part 3

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before you two were married, did you both know each other very well?

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你们结婚以前,双方彼此都很了解吗?

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there aren't very many people getting divorced in China now.

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现在中国离婚的不太多.

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that married couple doesn't work in the same region.

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那对夫妇不在一个地区工作.

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how many days of leave does he get every year to visit family?

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他每年有多少天的叹亲家?

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it's always better if married couples can be together.

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夫妇总是能够在一起比较好.

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they gave quite a bit of consideration before they got married.

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他们是经过相当的考虑以后才结婚的.

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but for some reason or other they still had a lot of problems.

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但是不知道为什么,他们还是有很多问题.

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男女应当彼此比较了解以后再结婚.

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do you think he'll help me solve this problem?

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你想他会不会帮我解决这个问题?

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now here's a conversation reviewing part three.

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a Canadian woman visiting China talks with her guide in Beijing.

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我们认识只有两个多星期,可是已经是老朋友了.

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我们天天在一块儿,真好像是老朋友了.

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我一直想问问你,你是什么时候结婚的呢?

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我是前年结婚的.

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你二十八岁了,你爱人呢?

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他三十二了,你们结婚的时候可不小了.

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中国年轻人都是这个样子吗?

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对了,政府提倡晚恋晚婚,

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年轻人也都要努力学习,努力工作,不要早结婚.

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城市里女的多大结婚?

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差不多二十五岁左右.

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男的呢?

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大概二十八岁左右.

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结婚的时候有什么样的仪式?

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没有什么仪式,不过结婚那天,

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请亲戚朋友来喝喝茶,吃点糖,点心什么的,

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没有人送点小礼物做纪念。

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农村里的年轻人也实行晚婚吗?

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对,在农村里,晚恋爱晚结婚,也已经成了一种风气。

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农村里,女孩子结婚的时候,男家还要送许多礼物吗?

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不要了,而且现在有些男青年结婚以后住到女家去,

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结婚以前的风俗有很大的区别。

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可不是吗?真是改变了不少。

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现在中国离婚的多不多?

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有,可是比较少,

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因为结婚以前,男女双方彼此比较了解,

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又经过相当的考虑,所以离婚的不太多。

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我听说,中国有一些夫妇不在一个地区工作,

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不住在一个地方,这会不会有问题呢?

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夫妇不在一个地方工作,虽然每年有半个月的探亲价,

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但是还有很多不方便,

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所以为了让他们更好的工作和学习,应当帮他们解决这个问题。

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对极了,夫妇总是能够在一起比较好。

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这就是结婚结婚的结尾。

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结婚,结婚,结婚,结婚,结婚,结婚。